Gently Introduce the Topic with Open-Ended Questions
- Who do you want to make decisions about your care if you are not able to speak for yourself?
- What types of medical treatments do you wish to receive or not wish to receive?
- How comfortable do you wish to be?
- How do you wish to be treated? What special things, activities, etc. are important to you?
- What would you want to communicate to your loved ones if you were no longer able to communicate?
Listen Carefully Using Both Verbal and Non-Verbal Communication
- Verbal Communication
- Use easy- to-understand words.
- Speak in an honest and sincere tone - Nonverbal Communication
- Sit in a comfortable chair and non-distracting surroundings.
- Make eye contact.
Consider Your Family Dynamics
- Who else needs to be included/informed?
- What advance communications need to happen to minimize stress?
Do Your Homework and Communicate Your Findings
- Analyze your financial issues and explore possible tax breaks, etc.
- Look into availability of transitional, home care, hospice services, respite care or long-term care options.
- Apply for and become familiar with special benefit entitlements (e.g. Medicare, Medicaid, veterans' benefits, etc.).
Make a record of your planning
- Don't trust your memory. Write it down!
- Keep it in a safe place.
If you have questions about whether Samaritan can provide assistance to you and your family, we encourage you to call 1-800-229-8183 or email us at any point during an illness.
